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Practice Partner - "Act the part, then be the part"

Practice Partner - Ariana's contemporary variation of a Surrogate Partner service in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, Bath and the South West

Introduction

If you are one of the many people who find it difficult to understand the opposite sex, this may be the service for you :-)

I aim to help equip you with the know-how and practical skills you need to find a partner - everything from feeling good about yourself in body and mind, effective communication with the opposite sex and dating skills, right through to gaining sexual skills.

This service is designed to be half-way between a "girl-friend experience" and a surrogate partner, which is why I have chosen to call it "Practice Partner".

A Personal Plan

The plan for each partner will be completely personalised and specific to that person's own unique requirements, taking into account their wishes and desires for their future. Some people, for example, might only want some help in a few specific areas, while others will decide to utilise the full range of help and services available.

Practice Partner - Ariana's contemporary variation of a Surrogate Partner service in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, South Wales, the South West and London UK

Some of the areas I can help you with are:

Body: Is it time for your own "Body MOT"?

Before you begin to date, it's worth addressing some basics first, such as: How happy are you with your own body size, shape and level of fitness? Exactly how do you see yourself right now?

Some of my clients recognise and accept that there could be some improvements in these areas as they often negatively affect confidence and they consider they're worth addressing. This is an optional part of the package, but if you feel that you'd like some help with weight-loss / gain and optimising your nutrition, then I can help with this aspect because of my training in nutrition.

Checklist:

  • Are you overweight / underweight by more than a few pounds and unhappy with your weight or shape?
  • Does "fast food" feature prominently in your diet?
  • Do you feel lethargic and lacking in energy a lot of the time?

If you're already happy with your body, nutrition and fitness levels and just need help in other areas that's great - we can just work towards those.

Mind - Dealing with the Mental Side of Relationships: How to Maintain a Positive Attitude.

I will show you some techniques that you can use to reinforce a positive mental attitude and which will help you to grow in confidence with yourself and with women.

A couple of examples of issues in this area could be shyness / fear of rejection and lack of confidence with dating skills.

Checklist:

  • Do you struggle to know how to approach a prospective partner or feel awkward and uncomfortable doing so?
  • Do you find it hard to know what to say or how to start a conversation off with someone you are attracted to and then maintain the momentum?
  • Do you avoid getting too close to anyone in case they reject you?
  • Do you avoid letting a relationship become too serious because you fear intimacy?

Dealing with Stress and Anxiety:

If you are always stressed out and find it hard to relax socially, part of my aim will be to tackle this area using aromatherapy, reflexology and therapeutic massage, in conjunction with some of the techniques I use to help promote a positive attitude.

Stress isn't always a bad thing. It is when it begins to affect us in negative ways that it becomes an issue.

Checklist:

  • Are you sleeping well?
  • When you have finished work, can you switch off and relax easily?
  • Do you find it difficult to concentrate?
  • Do people around you mention that you have become more irritable / moody / grumpy?
  • What ways do you use to relax?
  • When did you last take a holiday?
  • When did you last feel excited, truly excited, about anything?

Dating Tips:

Would you like to become better at some of the things below:

  • Gaining confidence with members of the opposite sex in social situations e.g. How to approach a woman to make the best impression.
  • Successful flirting techniques.
  • Body language for making a positive impact on a woman - learn how to project positive body language.
  • How to listen to someone - and, just as importantly, how to make them feel they are being listened to - a vital skill.
  • Image update / revamp - what to wear so you feel comfortable but stylish, keeping within your own budget and taking into account your character and how you wish to portray yourself.
  • What to say to a woman to make them feel special and valued - and what not to say! :-)

Role-Play Scenarios:

If only you could have a rehearsal of how you might act in a certain place on a date, you would find it so much easier having practiced it with someone already - now you can get that practice with me!

We can rehearse typical scenes you will find yourself in on a date e.g. taking her out for a meal, how to take control of the situation, ordering food etc. or any number of other dating options.

Sex Coaching:

Your body is fitter and healthier, your attitude is positive, now all you need is a little more sexual confidence and practice.

Part of Practice Partner will be sex coaching. Here you will learn everything you need to keep him or her happy in the bedroom (or wherever else you decide to make love!).

Checklist:

  • Do you know how to arouse a woman so she's ready for sex?
  • Can you locate basic female anatomy e.g. if you had to find her clitoris would you know what it looked like? Do you know how to locate her G-spot and how to stimulate it?
  • Can you give a sensuous massage using aromatherapy oils to relax or stimulate your partner?
  • Do you know how to finger your partner to give her the most pleasure, or where the most sensory receptors are in the vagina?
  • Do you feel confident as a lover or would you like to improve your confidence in this area?

Sexual Confidence:

If you'd like to read more about confidence issues and sex, you may find a recent series of questions I answered informative.

Practice Partner - Ariana's contemporary variation of a Surrogate Partner service in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, Bath and the South West

What is the difference between Holistic Sex Coaching (HSC) and Practice Partner (PP)?

The focus of HSC is to optimise your skills, confidence and enjoyment of sex.

This may be as simple as gaining extra coaching in sexual techniques and practice, or more complex in addressing sexual problems via a multi-dimensional approach that takes into account areas such as the body, mind, emotions and energy.

The focus of PP is to give you practice at acting the role of a partner, so you are then empowered to go on to form your own real-life relationship of your own.

The whole focus of PP can be summed up in the short phrase "Act the part, then be the part". Sexual skills training may be one part of this but sex alone is not the sole focus, which is more broad-based aiming to equip you with many skills needed to form and maintain a relationship. It is important to realise that Practice Partner is exactly what it says - a time to practice skills. In order to reinforce this, several "reality checks" will be built into the meetings in order to reinforce this focus.

Practice Partner - Ariana's contemporary variation of a Surrogate Partner service in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, Bath and the South West

Rates

I offer two course lengths for both the Holistic Sex Coaching and Practice Partner services: a shorter "introductory" course (total length of 6 hours), and a longer "main" course (total length of 12 hours). If you are sure that you want a longer set of appointments than I offer in the "introductory" course, you can start immediately on the "main" course, which offers a reduced hourly rate compared to the shorter "introductory" course. Either course length can be bought as often as a client requires, or until they have aquired the skills which they set out as their targets.

The basic structure of the two course lengths is as follows:

Ariana - independent, well-educated escort for Holistic Sex Coaching and Practice Partner sessions in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, South Wales and the South West
Short Course Total: 4 hours £600  
       
Session: Sexual Hours Coaching Hours Session Length
1 1 hour 1 hour 2 hrs
2 1 hour 1 hour 2 hrs
       
Ariana - independent, well-educated escort for Holistic Sex Coaching and Practice Partner sessions in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, South Wales and the South West
Main Course Total: 8 hours £1200  
       
Session: Sexual Hours Coaching Hours Session Length
1 1 hour 1 hour 2 hrs
2 1 hour 1 hour 2 hrs
3 1 hour 1 hour 2 hrs
4 1 hour 1 hour 2 hrs
       
Ariana - independent, well-educated escort for Holistic Sex Coaching and Practice Partner sessions in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, South Wales and the South West

These rates are to be paid in full at the start of each course, and are for meetings in my local area which is the South West (Bristol, Gloucestershire, Cheltenham), South Wales (Cardiff, Newport, Bridgend) and the towns in between. I am also frequenting Cambridge and surrounding areas. After at least one meeting in my local area, I will travel to other areas too - please let me know at the initial enquiry stage if you would like me to do this and for how many meetings, then I will calculate the extra travelling charges.

After at least one meeting, some of the remaining coaching time can be via pre-arranged telephone conversations (each a minimum of 0.5 hour long), if you feel that this would be advantageous for you. However, I am keen that there is still some face-to-face coaching time too, which is why I would not want all of the coaching to be via telephone conversations.

Practice Partner - Ariana's contemporary variation of a Surrogate Partner service in Bristol, Cardiff, Newport, Bath and the South West

Further information

Please contact me by email if you have specific questions about this service, which you would like to discuss.