- What is the most irritating behaviour which you have noted in a sexual encounter?
My experiences with women have all been fine and I haven't really noticed anything irritating, but I think women have a good idea of what other women like, so this helps.
In men - trying to behave like a porn-star is one; and on the odd occasion, lack of attention to personal hygiene.
- Copying porn stars.
The "porn-star plunge" for example, can be very annoying if the man gets carried away and isn't paying enough attention. This is when the man decides he's going to take his cock fully out of the woman and plunge it back in, only to misjudge the re-entry angle, thereby causing discomfort or pain to her. He's seen all the guys on porn-films doing it, but isn't aware of his position because he's got so carried away imagining himself playing the leading role! I think a big reason for this is that for some men, their only knowledge of sex has been gained from seeing sex videos. Lots of these videos are made by men – although this is slowly changing.
- Personal grooming issues.
Lack of personal hygiene is a major turn-off when it happens, but thankfully it's an infrequent occurrence. If men want more and better sex, they need to wise up to the difference between "good-enough-for-work" clean and "ready-for-sex" clean. Never underestimate the importance of personal hygiene in sex! At the very least a man should shower thoroughly, clean his teeth and make sure his nails are kept short and trimmed.
